Lapidot Matoi
The (unofficial) leader of the neru fan club!
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My weekend has been pretty casual, nothing much of a plan for Sunday either. Maybe except for the splatfest
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I hope you have lots and lots of fun, neechan! You deserve something interesting to do,,, Take pictures if anything interests you, okay?? ♡I'm going to an art exhibit since my aunt asked me if I wanted to go. It'll be a nice change of pace since I've been staying cooped up in my room lately. Also getting more fanfic writing done for the contest over in Shippers' Paradise, hehe.
Rooting for you, Angie! I hope this is fate's way of giving you more time to keep hunting for a job that's kinder to you. You of all people deserve it.unfortunate part is that i don't get paid, fortunate part is more free time.
Yes, lol.Anyone else feel that teenagers put too much information about themselves online?
Your thoughts are the same as mine. I was even a teenager who fell into this pit for a couple years when I was 16, I had a Carrd that listed all of my MIs and what not like you have described. I took it down when I turned 18 because I realized I do not like having that info out there and the only reason I even did it in the first place was because other kids my age had one and I wanted to bandwagon.And not even just like...actually personally identifiable information but I'll sometimes see Tumblr users who are in their teens and they have a massively detailed list of their triggers and their DNI and you are just giving ammo to dipshits by doing that.
Say if you've got 'knife wounds' listed as one of your triggers, what do you think some dipshit troll who wants to harass you is going to start doing? They're gonna start spamming you with pictures of knife wounds because they know that you are bothered by such imagery because you said you are.
And then when you ask/tell the troll to stop harassing you, some will continue doing so because they know it bothers you.Rooting for you, Angie! I hope this is fate's way of giving you more time to keep hunting for a job that's kinder to you. You of all people deserve it.
Yes, lol.
Your thoughts are the same as mine. I was even a teenager who fell into this pit for a couple years when I was 16, I had a Carrd that listed all of my MIs and what not like you have described. I took it down when I turned 18 because I realized I do not like having that info out there and the only reason I even did it in the first place was because other kids my age had one and I wanted to bandwagon.
Honestly I know why kids do it, I know it's because to them it's helping people understand how they function and how to best communicate with them but in all honesty it's just not worth the risk, that's information that should remain private unless you choose to share it in closed spaces. I think also teenagers are far more paranoid of 'accountability' based situations, and they feel that kind of stuff is their own safeguard against it rather than something that can for sure (and has been) weaponized against them. But yeah, big agree on your points here, and not just because I'm a very private person.
It is actually kind of wild how the notion of 'internet privacy' and stuff has basically gone 180 from when I was a kid.Your thoughts are the same as mine. I was even a teenager who fell into this pit for a couple years when I was 16, I had a Carrd that listed all of my MIs and what not like you have described. I took it down when I turned 18 because I realized I do not like having that info out there and the only reason I even did it in the first place was because other kids my age had one and I wanted to bandwagon.
Honestly I know why kids do it, I know it's because to them it's helping people understand how they function and how to best communicate with them but in all honesty it's just not worth the risk, that's information that should remain private unless you choose to share it in closed spaces. I think also teenagers are far more paranoid of 'accountability' based situations, and they feel that kind of stuff is their own safeguard against it rather than something that can for sure (and has been) weaponized against them. But yeah, big agree on your points here, and not just because I'm a very private person.
I always think it would be cool to randomly meet someone who also uses the bulba, like see them on their phone using the site. Then I realize holy crap there are not that many people using this site and they are all very spread out. So that’s not going to happen… everThink the chances of someone online finding where I live (unless they are absolutely dedicated to it) is like...slim to none.
I have a friend on Discord who occasionally posts here and we both live in South Florida and it turns out we actually live a lot damn closer than we thought lol.I always think it would be cool to randomly meet someone who also uses the bulba, like see them on their phone using the site. Then I realize holy crap there are not that many people using this site and they are all very spread out. So that’s not going to happen… ever